on Jane Friedman site:
Ask me what I ate for breakfast on Tuesday of last week and I won’t be able to tell you. Maybe a bagel? Fruit? Definitely tea. Unless that’s when I ran out…
This isn’t different from most people. Except I happen to be a memoir writer. And if I can’t even tell you that, how can you trust me to accurately recreate scenes from my distant childhood?
I think the answer lies in having a willingness to objectively examine your miscreant memories to determine where—and if—they belong in your story.
Such as this one: