Another Thursday has rolled around and I’m back at the tree-house. I’m Teagan Ríordáin Geneviene here with a guest post for the Story Reading Ape.
Thriving Thursdays: Content to Coast
Once upon a time, a couple of people in my office told me they had discussed an undesirable work situation within their group.
“We’ve decided that we’re just going to coast until retirement.”
“How long until you retire?” I asked.
“Oh about ten years.”

I’m not here to pass judgement. (If the truth be known that was years ago. They are still coasting and I’m still stuck, but I keep trying to do something about it. So I have little room to talk. At any rate…) People have their reasons. These people were dealing with a situation they found difficult. Still, I couldn’t help being taken aback.
Later it made me realize… There are those who are content to coast. Then there are those of us who need to thrive.
Wishing you a thriving Thursday,
Mega hugs,
Teagan
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It is always great to see Teagan over here, Chris, she just makes so much sense.
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Ha! Heartfelt thanks, Robbie. I had to chuckle at myself though, because I often wonder if anyone can make sense of me. 😀 Wishing you wonders throughout the holidays. Thrive on!
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Ten years is a long time to coast. Good post, Teagan. Season’s Greetings to both you and Chris. 🙂 — Suzanne
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LOL… yes to coast — and still complain about the same situation. I have not succeeded, so I’m no better than them, but I can’t help thinking, “At least I’m trying…”
Wishing you and yours wonders and blessings throughout the holidays, Suzanne. Hugs.
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Go with the flow! Thanks, Teagan.
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LOL… No Jennie… I am just not content to coast. If you can go with the flow and be happy, then by all means do. That sounds like a wonderful life.
But I have to try to thrive, else I have nothing but the bad hand I’ve been dealt. To those who can go with the flow, more power to them. But not everyone is designed to float along, to be resigned to whatever washes up on the riverbank. It’s not easy being a boat against the current, but if I give in and just accept misery without trying to fix it — to thrive, to try and make life worthwhile, then that’s not living.
I really enjoyed your post about the gifts. Hugs.
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I love this, Teagan. You are right! I feel like you do. I have come to realize or feel that letting go of some things is empowering. Does that make sense? I am a go with the flow person… until something steps in front that is too important. The little things that ruffle my feathers are not worth the stress and anger. The big things are. You are a rock with a huge heart. ❤️
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You expressed it perfectly, Jennie! Yes, I’ve learned to be an adult goose and let the splash of small things roll off my feathers — not get soaked like a little gosling. But for the important things I have to face the wind head on.
Thrive on, Jennie. Holiday blessings to you and yours.
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Exactly! Best to you, Teagan.
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I agree Teagan: while it’s nice to be a survivor, it’s better to be a thriver (even if just for your own sanity!) Merry Christmas! Px
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Thank you kindly, Paul. That’s a great way to put it. For me, “trying” is the fine line that separates existing from dying. Merry Christmas to you as well.
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Thanks for sharing, Michael 😀
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Thank you kindly, Michael. Hugs.
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Thanks, Teagan. I agree that sometimes we need to whatever is required to survive, but for most of us just doing that long-term can end up destroying our spirit.
Have a thriving rest of the week.
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I can see that, Olga. I guess I expressed this poorly. It’s fine that people want to coast… but expecting others to flip an off switch and do the same…
You have a good rest of the week too.
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On second thought… you’re absolutely right. All my trying has done nothing but leave me exhausted. The coasters are still coasting and I’m still trying and failing. I admitted defeat a year ago, so why keep banging my head against the wall? I’m old. I won’t have to deal with it that much longer.
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Hi Chris. Thanks so much for hosting me again, and for helping me thrive.
You are one of a wonderful kind. Mega hugs.
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Welcome, Teagan – MFHs ❤
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I’m like a small stream. I take the path of least resistance. Merry Christmas, Teagan and Chris.
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Have a GREAT Christmas, Andrew – and don’t eat too many mince pies 😀
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Hi, Andrew. Going with the flow is widely considered good advice. I’m glad you’ve found your own “stream.” The image of a small stream is so peaceful and calming to me. It’s a beautiful thing.
I don’t suggest that anyone struggle in futility. Some need take a path with no resistance — that’s what lets them thrive in areas that are important to them. Meanwhile others can’t cope with that coping mechanism. 🙂
With this post I mean to encourage anyone who feels blocked from thriving.
I appreciate you taking time to comment. Hugs!
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I hope to always comment on your thoughts and observations.
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It is always a pleasure to see you. Cheers!
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Thanks for the lift, Teagan. I sure needed it today ❤
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Hi, Tina. I’m glad I could give you a boost. I seem to be running on empty this week too. Wishing us all a big dose of thriving energy. 😀 Huge hugs.
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